Purgatory - Club Etiquette


		PEOPLE No DOMINANT or person may demand anything of another unless the other has consented to the relationship. No SUBMISSIVE or person is under any obligation to serve or obey anyone they do not choose.
DUNGEON ETIQUETTE DRESS Basic black or your favourite erotic or fetish gear. Leather, latex, rubber, corsets, harnesses, restraints or drag, whatever your fantasy, kink or fetish. Wear it in or change on arrival. PLAY There is no right or wrong way to play at BDSM as long as it is safe and consensual. Each person has their own level of play and their own fetish. So do it your way; but remember for someone else their way is the right way for them. Be very careful in offering well-meaning suggestions about another's play technique, edge play, scarification, cutting or use of single tail whip, must be discussed at time of booking. A safety observer will make random checks on all play.	TOYS and HYGIENE Purgatory theDUNGEON provides basic toys. If you use our toys, put them in the 'used toys' basket for cleaning when finished. We strongly recommend you disinfect your own toys after use. Do not touch another's toys without their permission. SCENE IN PROGRESS * Do not distract or touch the players. * Do not disrupt the scene or invade the player's space. * You may watch if invited or if play is in an open area. * Always watch from a distance. * Never invite yourself to join a scene, if you are wanted you will be asked.	NON-POLITICAL Purgatory theDUNGEON is NON-POLITICAL. Please leave all scene politics and personal likes / dislikes at the door. Manners and respect for others are mandatory. Ill mannered, disrespectful behaviour will not be tolerated. ANONIMITY Purgatory theDUNGEON holds ALL information about its members and visitors in the strictest confidence and requires its members and visitors to do the same. A Statement about DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Domestic violence takes many forms - physical abuse, isolation, outright or subtle psychological and emotional abuse, economic control, sexual abuse and destruction of personal property. Purgatory theDUNGEON does not condone nor tolerate any of these acts. Non-consensual manipulation, terror and assault are NOT PART OF BDSM.